break|up

up side: no more pretending
down side: no more pretending

up side: time to yourself
down side: time to yourself

up side: time with friends
down side: friends have found other lives

up side: more dating opportunities
down side: more dates

up side: living life on your own terms
down side: figuring out those terms

up side: no obligation to hang out with his lame friends
down side: no date to family functions

up side: thirty and flirty
down side: thirty and single

up side: rekindle things with ex-boyfriend
down side: reasons why you broke up with ex-boyfriend

up side: no more indecision
down side: facing decision

up side: no more wasting time